Monday 27 April 2015

Relationship Insights ! (Personality test)

I took this test in the fall of 2013 . It gave me a lot of insight when i was suffering in a relationship. I ll describe my 'take' on this once you are done with the test. 

To look within.

NO CHEATING! That will take all the fun out of it.
This is a very interesting test. Try it.

Have a pen and paper handy before you read any further. As soon as you read a question, write the answer right away.

Make sure to answer questions 1-8 before moving on…NO CHEATING!!

Read the following questions, imagining the scenes in your mind, and write down the FIRST thing that you visualize. Do not think about the questions excessively.

1. You are not alone. You are walking in the woods. Who are you walking with?
2. You are walking in the woods. You see an animal. What kind of animal is it?
3. What interaction takes place between you and the animal?
4. You walk deeper in the woods. You enter a clearing and before you is your dream house. Describe its size?
5. Is your dream house surrounded by a fence?
6. You enter the house. You walk to the dining area and see the dining room table. Describe what you see on AND around the table.
7. You exit the house through the back door. Lying in the grass is a cup. What material is the cup made of?
8. What do you do with the cup?
Done ?
This has been a relational psychology test. The answers given to the questions have been shown to have a relevance to values and ideals that we hold in our personal lives. Its more of a reflection on how you are currently perceiving your relationship with someone. The analysis follows:

1. The person who you are walking with is the most important person in your life.
2. The size of the animal is representative of your perception of the size of your problems.
3. The severity of the interaction you have with the animal is representative of how you deal with your problems. (passive/aggressive)
4. The size of your dream house is representative of the size of your ambition to resolve your problems.
5. No fence is indicative of an open personality. People are welcome at all times. The presence of a fence indicates a closed personality. You’d prefer people not to drop by unannounced.
6. If your answer did not include food, people, or flowers, then you are generally unhappy.
7. The durability of the material with which the cup is made of is representative of the perceived durability of your relationship with the person named in number 1. For example, Styrofoam, and paper are all disposable, Styrofoam, paper and glass are not durable, and metal and plastic are durable.
8. Your disposition of the cup is representative of your attitude towards the person in number 1.

My own test results: 

I was in relationship dump when i first took this one... gave me a lot of insight and clarity .

Here is what happened. 

Question 1: You are not alone. You are walking in the woods. Who are you walking with?
Answer 1. I saw myself walking with this girl that i had been in love with for a long time, but things weren't working out. Lets call her 'Robin' to protect the identity of the innocent . 

Analysis : Yes she was kinda always on my mind, so its safe to say that she was and still is important. 

Question 2: You are walking in the woods. You see an animal. What kind of animal is it?
Answer 2: The animal that i saw was a Deer, a Stag to be more precise, had antlers and all, strong and robust. 

Come at me bro ! :p

Analysis :  Now deer is a medium sized animal , and is a quite docile one generally, until you go a lock horns with it. Same for my problems in my relationship, they were there , they weren't monumental , but yes they gave me a lot of pain , if i tried to solve them , or approach them aggressively with an intent to solve them. The test says that animal is representative of the perception of the size of my problem. 'Perception' being the key word here. Perception is my own view of the world, and often it doesn't really have any roots in Actual reality. In a objective world view, nothing no where is Right or Wrong, and so my problems are not really problems, they are more like situations, that are just present, And have the choice to give these situations the power to make me feel good or bad by assigning them the tag of good or bad. So my perception will constantly change with how hopeful i am or how fearful i am regarding a particular situation. So the more hopeful i am, the smaller the animal will be, and smaller my problem will actually be.  That is a relief. 

Question 3: What interaction takes place between you and the animal?
Answer 3: The stag looks at me , i don't react , it runs away. 
Analysis : In the past i have been the, Fight it out , deal with it kinda person, but recently i have been more of a 'at peace' , 'i just wanna be happy kinda person' so, i didn't aggravate my problems, and so they left me alone. at-least i had that working out for me. 

 Question 4: You walk deeper in the woods. You enter a clearing and before you is your dream  house. Describe its size?
 Answer no 4: I saw a big Wooden house, luxurious, Spacious, and comfortable.  

Close enough...

Analysis: As i told you before , lately i had been more occupied with the resolve to be happy, so yes this house in all its glory represented a peaceful , tranquil , and comfortable approach in my ways of solving my problems. 

Question 5: Is your dream house surrounded by a fence?
Answer 5: There was no Fence. 
Analysis: Yes i am a more open minded person, it wasn't true before , but lately i have been more accepting and peaceful, and open to new information, and expansion.

Question 6: You enter the house. You walk to the dining area and see the dining room table. Describe what you see on AND around the table?
Answer 6: So i saw a huge dining hall , i was alone, big table, hunting trophies on the wall, quite. no there were no flowers , people , children . 
Analysis : Well i had been a fearful person till now, and yes, fearful ones are never generally happy.. and my quest for peace and my own happiness came from this unhappiness only. so quite true. 

Question 7: You exit the house through the back door. Lying in the grass is a cup. What material is the cup made of?
Answer 7: So i went through the back door , a white porcelain cup lay in the grass. 

Doesn't wear over time, but requires good handling.

Analysis : Now i have always perceived Porcelain cups to be beautiful, smooth, easy to hold, feel good in your fingers And everlasting if you handle it with care. And that is how i looked at my relationship with Robin, it was good , smooth, beautiful ,and gave me and her joy , and yes it had the potential to last for ever . But at the same time porcelain cups are kind of fragile, if they fall an a soft surface they may survive, but they generally break if you drop em on solid ground, not unlike a metal or a plastic cup. And so , yes i had this fear of loosing this relationship,  a fear so strong that i felt like it was the end whenever there was even a slight bump. Why i felt like this was probably, because i have never had such an amazing relationship before. And so the idea of  loosing this one seemed terrible. So yes i kinda handled my relationship like a porcelain cup. 
It was after this, that i realized , that a relationship is how i make it to be, did i stop loving her after each and every bump ? No ! i didn't, so then why was i afraid that she would stop loving me? What i give in a relationship i deserved back, and  till now if i look at it, she has always been receptive, and i have always gotten what invested, so then my fear for her leaving me at a slightest bump, is irrational , it actually just stems from my immense love for her. and this immense love stage has been achieved by me because of all the love that i have received from her.. so she ain't gonna leave me.. so this can be a metal cup. That's a Relief.  

Question 8: What do you do with the cup?
Answer 8: I pick the cup up , and keep it in a safe place. 
Analysis: That is how i have been , protective and caring , of her and of the relationship. its good, but when i start doing so because i think that my relationship is a fragile thing, its turns bad. coz now  in my mind my relationship , though good, is also not strong. This is a wrong way to think about it.. i have guarded it for a long time, but i don't have to guard it  anymore, it can become a metal cup, and so i can carry it anywhere, my relationship can be something not good and fragile but something good and strong like a metal cup... it doesn't belong at home, in safety , if belongs out there with me traveling the world, going through life's up's and down's and still stong and good. 
The results of this test gave me a great insight on my own perception of my relationship and how i needed to change my perception for the universe to allow and provide me with the desired results. 

Do share your results in the comments of on the facebook page. 
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Sunday 26 April 2015

An Unusual Personality Test That Will Surprise You!

Read the story below and answer as spontaneously and quickly as possible.

There are two neighboring islands. In the first one live two men: an uncivilized savage and a civilized man. In the other island there are several people, among them a girl who is in love and has a relationship with the civilized man

The girl wants to go to the opposite island to meet her lover. She asks the only boatman of the island how much he wants to take her there. The boatman says that he does not want money and he will take her to the other island if she is naked in the boat. The girl is shocked… not knowing what to do she goes to the wise man of the island to ask for help. He listens to her story with attention and gives the following advice: “Do what your heart tells you, my child…” So the girl decides to accept the proposal of the boatman in order to meet her beloved man. So, they go to the other island. But when they arrive, the savage is on the seafront and gets crazy at the sight of the naked woman so he rapes her… At the same moment the civilized man comes and sees the scene. He goes mad and tells the girl that he does not want her anymore and she must leave immediately…

 Evaluate the 5 characters of the story (savage, civilized man, girl, boatman, wise man) from the best to the worst, so that the number 1 is the character that you believe to be the best person of the story and the 5th is the worst of all.



Each character of the story represents a priority in your life: 

Savage = how important is sex for you; 
Civilized man = importance of other people’s opinion; 
Girl = your need for emotional relationship; 
Boatman = your need for earning money; 
Wise man = how much you rely on logic.

Credits: Learning mind 
Anna Lemind

Wednesday 22 April 2015



When we say "Let Go of things" we are not even by a long shot referring to your desires , we are referring to The 'things' that are keeping your desire away from you. And to let those things go, we have a small exercise for you.
Find a comfortable place where you cant be disturbed for a while and , close your eyes. Now take a few deep breaths , concentrate on the cool air going in your nose and the warm air coming out , this will help to clear your mind of any thoughts . you are ready now.

"We want you to imagine a beautiful garden , just be in that garden for a while , notice the flowers the warmth of the sun and the butterflies. in the middle of the garden there is a cottage. approach the cottage and open the door. inside its dark , but you see a child.. you look closer , the child is you , when you were 5 years old. You notice that the child is scared . you gently approach the child and really gently comfort him and ask him what is wrong , and what is he / she afraid of ? (now in this conversation you can talk to the child on the subject of a desire that's been keeping away from you for a while , a desire that's proving a little hard to achieve). The child will tell you all of the things that has hurt him regarding the desire , all of the things he fears , and of the reasons why the desire cant be achieved . Now being the self aware and knowledgeable 'LOAer' you know that tackling all these fears and reasons is no big deal for the universe. Your job is to comfort and let the child know this . convince him , that he no longer needs to fear his fears because the universe is looking out for him and that his desire will be fulfilled as soon as he leaves this darkness and steps out in the garden to enjoy it. "ALL THAT MATTERS IS HOW YOU VIBRATE IN THE PRESENT MOMENT, WHAT HAPPENED IN THE PAST WAS JUST A RESULT OF YOUR BAD VIBRATION , BUT NOW YOU KNOW BETTER. SO JUST LET GO OF ANGER , FEAR , GUILT , DOUBT AND VIBRATE AS IF YOU WOULD VIBRATE WHEN YOU WILL HAVE YOUR DESIRE. " Make him understand this, Talk to him , comfort him , give him a hug , answer all his doubts with your wisdom of the universe. and then when he begins to feel better about the "off limit desire" , Walk him out of the cottage and enjoy the sights. 
Once you start feeling better on the topic that you have been feeling stuck for so long , the process is done , take a few deep breaths and open your eyes. 
We would recommend you do this exercise right before you go to sleep. 
Happy cleansing !!

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