Showing posts with label Positivity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Positivity. Show all posts

Saturday, 18 June 2016

WHY YOU SHOULD CHOOSE LOVE OVER HATING ALL THAT IS WRONG



LOA, the Universe and this life, it's all about choices, we might think that we are just victims to our circumstances, but that is far from the truth. At every point in our life we have 'a choice' to choose from one of the two, love or hate/resistance/annoyance. As the person responsible for your own life, it is your duty to seek out and pay attention to what you love about yourself , others and the situation at hand. Even if you cant see anything worth loving in the moment, you have to use your imagination to come up with something that you might love regarding a situation or the person. 

You can start with the 'what if ' game.

'What if this situation resolves itself in a perfect and easy and smooth way, it would be nice to see that happen.'

 or in case of an unpleasant person..

 'What if this person was in a good mood today, and spoke nicely'

 or if you a feeling extra cocky, why not throw in some...

 'What if this person gave me a sincere compliment'.

 Doing these things change the way you feel about a particular situation, suddenly you feel better about your situation, suddenly that scary boss isn't that scary anymore.

 The universe picks up on our emotional state and tries to match that by designing the upcoming events and outcomes to match our new and improved emotional state.

When you choose to hate or bash things , you have a bad emotional response about those things, Missing stuff is going to get you more missing, resisting more resistance, fear will get you more to be fearful about, running will give you more to run from, When you hate life, the universe picks up and shapes life to be consistently hated.  The universe is simple and perfect that way, it will give you all that matches your emotional state. 

 So, it makes perfect sense to take control of you emotional state. 

Now , many of you might think that your emotional state can't be controlled , or it's hard to do so, or you expect me to be aware all the time? I know, it's kind of hard at first, people spend their whole life reacting to circumstances and creating more unknowingly. 
But, it's not impossible, it can be done with a little practice, i mean you will obviously have to get rid of habits like 'wallowing in self pity' and  'blaming stuff, and others for your misery', because doing so, makes you docile or angry, and both are far away from joy and love and self awareness. 

 One of the easiest way to start of is setting periodic reminders on your phone daily which would ask you regularly, "How are you feeling?". 

 We feel stuff all the time, but we never ask ourselves, what is it that we are feeling, broadly speaking, all feelings can be summed down to varying degrees of good or bad. 

 So then why don't you just ask yourself every now and then, Are you feeling Good or bad? If you need assistance, set a few periodic alarms so you don't just forget. 
Whenever the alarms asks you "how are you feeling?", take a moment and try and reflect on your emotional state, look if anything is bothering you, any feeling that is causing you to feel less than calm and free, if you find anything look for a root thought, that is causing you to have concern. Once you find it, choose to let it go, coz concern doesn't solve anything. The only thing that can take care of this problem (real or imaginary) is a positive feeling. 
Time to play the "What if" game and imagine a perfectly generalized easy and smooth solution to your concern/ problem, and love the idea of it till it gives you relief , and you start to feel better. 



Saturday, 2 May 2015

THE PROCESS OF CREATION WITH LAW OF ATTRACTION.





 Have you ever had a, "it happened exactly as i predicted/ feared/ thought" Moment ?

 If yes, Then why didn't you prevent it from happening?

You Did.. didn't you? try your best.. to prevent it... but it still happened.

So then, Why did it turn out the way it did?

Did you not see what you did there? You created a bad thing from nothing.Confused? Just go back to that event, go to the very beginning. Trace it source, you will find that the source of it was a FEAR.
 
It can be a fear of loosing the said thing , a fear of getting hurt, but it was a fear, A fear "What if it goes wrong?"
Look at that fear , and realize that , at that point this fear of yours didn't stem from any concrete evidence, it didn't exist in your reality, it was just a thought in your head,a bad thought, An Idea!

So you had a bad 'thought', and it felt so bad, that you resolved that you didn't want it at any cost, you looked to the past and around for evidence, at your experience , at experience of others, and found out a convenient way in which that bad thing can creep into your life. The next step was quite simple, you started taking measures to prevent it from happening, but still it happened in the end, it creeped in from a path that you didn't expect, or which you thought that you had blocked.

So, what happened here ?
 You had a thought, You felt how it would feel if that thought were true.(you believed it was something real and it should be stopped) and then you fueled it with emotions, -ve emotions(fear, dread, anxiety). And at the same time Focused on it by trying to 'prevent it'. And the creation happened.

SO YOU CREATED SOMETHING FROM NOWHERE JUST BY THINKING ABOUT IT AND GIVING IT EMOTION AND BELIEVING IT WAS REAL.

The good news is that this is also how you create something good.You have a thought, you feel how it feels if it was real. Fuel it with emotion, Before you focused on to it, out of fear , now focus onto it out of LOVE. and before you know it it will be there. 

Life is not about, "this you can have and this you cant, when life show's you something that you know you want, but don't have right now, it not mocking you... it showing you that you want this and encouraging you to be happy with what you have and then create what you want next. 
And that is the simplicity of creation with thoughts. 
 
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Sunday, 1 March 2015

LETTING GO OF FEAR !



Fear 
Why do we Fear Stuff? Why do we fear stuff that is not even there? And why do we Fear stuff by assuming that there is something to fear?

 We fear stuff because we think that the ‘Stuff” is uncertain, and by extension ‘out of our control’, and by fearing it and mentally preparing ourselves for it beforehand, we think that we are trying to control that ‘out of our control stuff’.

But what are we doing really? We are creating that uncertain stuff by fearing it. When you fear something your mind focuses on that something, and by law, what you focus on expands. Now many of you would have taken up a razor to your wrist, just after reading this, coz this, to many of you would mean that you would be going on about in circles for the foreseeable future. 

You fear , you create , you fear, you create. The cycle goes on… 

Put the razor Down! your life is awesome! You can be happy! Just read on.

So, why has fearing stuff become a habit? Or why does it seem like the default setting. Because with fear is associated the ‘pain’ of getting ‘Hurt’, either ‘Physical’ or ‘emotional’ hurt. 

And as long as you are not a Sado-masochist, you don’t really enjoy pain, and so you fear everything that is there to give you pain, physical or emotional. 

But, then why does anything bad exist? Why is there a hell to your heaven, and devil to your god, loneliness to your perfect relationship, poverty to your prosperity? Let’s call these extreme negatives, and the reason that they exist is so that we can fully appreciate the extreme positives. 

You can’t experience great love without having your heart broken a few times, you cant appreciate your prosperity and reach your full potential, unless you know the pain of poverty and failure. You cannot fully appreciate the existence of good if you haven’t seen the bad. 

And that is the true purpose of all that is bad. To make you appreciate the good. 

That’s the message! “Appreciate the good, Focus on it, Feel it, day in day out, and only good will be created for you” 

Now with that being said, you will ask me, how do we stay away from the bad then? It seems to come by in large doses, and usually follow something good, making it worst?

Well , you know how the universal “law of attraction” states, whatever you focus on Grows, so is the growth of good and bad in your life is regulated. 

Look back, see all the bad that has happened, A break up, a loss of job, personal loss, just look at it and look at the your emotions preceding that event, and then apply the ‘What I focus on expands’ rule to this. And tell me you weren’t anticipating the bad thing. 

But I was anticipating, because I wanted to prevent it. You say. I have had bad experiences in the past, Men are pigs, Women are Vampires, and money is hard to come by, I know a friend of a friend of a friend of a friend who went through this. And yet with all this knowledge you landed yourself in that bad situation? You didn’t prevent anything. All you did was focus on a bad thing for so long that you invited it to your own life. 

Don’t you see what you did here? You just created the ‘very thing’ by focusing on ‘not creating it’, There is no such thing as a ‘I don’t want it’ with the universe. Its all focus. And when you think that you are focused on preventing something from happening, you are actually just creating the very thing for yourself. 

Bad things exist because we acknowledge their existence by focusing on ‘not wanting them’. 

So what is the moral of this story right here? You create the good, and you create the bad. And so it’s all under your control, and if it is all under your control, then you choose to not create a bad thing for yourself, by holding in your head its exact opposite, the good thing. 

You don’t want to be alone anymore? Focus on being loved; appreciate whatever love that you are receiving right now. Realize what matters. It’s your happiness that is the most important thing in the world, and focus on whatever that makes you truly happy, that is what your life is all about. 

“But I have to know about all that is evil, so I can guard myself against it.” 

No! the best way to guard yourself is to ‘not’ let it into your conciseness. You think that you are guarding yourself against a break up, guarding yourself from getting hurt, or failure or harm, but getting hurt and failure and suffering is what you are really creating. 

When all that is evil in the world in under your control. When you can at any point choose to invite or not invite or throw out the bad things, by simply changing your focus. Then why are you still fearful about ‘stuff’ jumping out, creeping in, unexpectedly into your life? Congratulations, you have just eliminated Fear. 

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Saturday, 3 January 2015

STOP MISSING THEM !


 

IF YOU WANT THEM BACK STOP MISSING THEM !!

I Hear form scores of people , Who are trying to pursue the love of their lives using the law of Attraction. Here is one thing that all of them do wrong. 

They Miss them. 

You have to understand that , missing them constantly , repeatedly paying attention to their absence , is something that keeps them away. because all the universe hears from you is "Absence ! Absence ! Absence ! " So it does what it does best , and gives you more of this ABSENCE . The result , is that your manifestation doesn't happen. 

Yes you have been visualizing , giving gratitude , doing your magic practices , but if after putting all this effort in the right direction , you spend the rest of your day feeling nostalgic , and feeling lonely and bad and sad because you MISS them . It defeats the whole purpose of the Law of attraction. What you are doing is giving mixed vibrations. and so you feel stuck and frustrated. 

 Here is where the concept of 'Allowing' Or 'Letting Go' Comes to play . Yes its true that the more emotion you give while focusing your thoughts on your desire the faster its gonna come to you , but its also true that you cant just go from feeling numb to Feeling unconditional love in a day or even in a week , the feelings will come naturally and gradually , and get stronger and clearer as each day passes. 

 What people usually do is that, they will visualize throughout the day, even when they dont feel like it , they will force themselves, because the concept of Work=Rewards is going on in their heads. 

 That's not true when dealing with the universe, you can visualize 5 minutes a day, and still manifest your desires, because its not the amount of time put in or hardships endured that counts , its the quality of your emotion that counts. 

 Enough Rants , Lets just keep to the mechanics of how the universe can help you with your ex problem. 

 You see , in case of an ex, there are a lot of built up feelings, caused by a bad breakup, and all this time spent away from each other. So first off all you have to understand that all of these feelings are just negative momentum, its like you think about missing them , which leads to thoughts of unworthiness , which leads to thoughts of insecurity , which leads to hopelessness and helplessness , further comes frustration , Anger , jealousy and before you know it you are breathing in a paper bag , because of the full blown panic attack you just had. And so you see how the train of   negative momentum goes , This train is the reason why , whenever you start to think about your ex you feel bad , coz that feeling bad place is where you are with regards to your ex. The negative momentum will give you access to only negative thoughts. So what do you do.. ??

 You meditate , clear your head , focus on not thinking or doing the things that cause you pain,that includes not thinking about your ex, letting the thought go  as you do these things you slowly come to a place of numbness , and then if you don't panic with the whole numbness thing , you move on to a place of general happiness , coz the human mind is wired to be Happy by default, its because we hold on to a lot of negative thoughts by thinking about them over and over, the mind travels to the dark side . But as soon as you let go, you go to a place where the mind is unburdened and happy. 
 
Some of you may find this "letting Go" thing a little difficult , as you may relate it to letting go of your ex , coz it may be your belief , that if you stop thinking about your ex , the universe would stop trying . But, Just relax, the first time you expressed your desire for that particular person , the universe said 'OK' and found a way to get you your desire , but it cant yet provide you your desire , coz you are not allowing it , in other simpler words, You are so stuck in your negative momentum,  in a place of telling the universe with your thoughts , "I dont have this !" that , it is all the universe can give you. "Not having it , and thoughts of not having it." 

 So in very simple words the step by step program would be:

 1. Clear your head ('let go' of negative, Find a hobby, find happiness in what you have.) 

 2. Focus on the feeling of being with them 2 times in a day, once in the morning , and then before going to bed at night. ( before bed is important, visualize , write about it )

 3. Clear your Blocks. ( As you move towards your desire , the universe will make you feel bad through a thought on occasion to try and tell you that this thought is the reason i cant give you your desire , you need to think around it , or get rid of it ) (take help of a coach , or a level headed person , or rationalize it yourself) 

 4. Allowing . ( Apart from the morning and night focus , throughout the day , distract yourself , dont think about your desire , coz no thought is better than a negative thought. ) 

Lastly , know that you are not rekindling an old relationship , you are in process of creating a new one.. doesn't matter , if its with the same person . its a new relationship that you are creating. 
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Thursday, 4 September 2014

YOU CREATE YOUR EXPERIENCE !


HOW ARE YOU FEELING ??

YOUR DAY TO DAY EXPERIENCE IS JUST A PHYSICAL MANIFESTATION OF WHAT"S GOING ON IN YOUR MIND ! 

It cant get simpler than this !! If you can just acknowledge this one simple Fact , then you can change your whole perspective of life and the living of life . 

Bad Days , can be transformed to good days in just a few moments , and Problems could be resolved in Moments . The universe always works instantly , the moment you set an intention ,its manifestation start's . The universe starts shaping your circumstances accordingly so that your intention can be met.
So Right now in this moment ...

What is your intention ? How are you feeling ?

Are you creating something wonderful ? (and creating something Amazing)
Or 
Are you stressing over something negative ? (and complicating the situation even more )

Are you appreciating yourself ? (And getting younger and happier and healthier by the moment)
Or 
Are you Holding on to some limiting belief about yourself ? ( And Gaining weight , loosing hair , loosing money and love and respect )

So , What is going on in your mind today ? 

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YOU HAVE THE POWER !!!



YOU HAVE THE POWER ! 

 This is the first time in the history of Man kind that we are openly talking about the Power of the Universe , rather than fearing it or worshiping it , we are actively developing our skills to efficiently communicate with it .

 Through our imagination , thoughts , emotions and by the power of our 'Will' we are now able to shape and reshape and eventually perfect our own experience in this life. 

 'Nothing is impossible' and 'Nothing is out of reach' No matter who you are and no matter Where you are or how hopeless things seem for you... Just know this , it will get better ! and even better , you have the power and the talent and the capability to make it better ! You don't have to wait , you don't have to suffer anymore . The unlimited and Awesome power of the universe is at your disposal , and when you learn to use this resource , You become Unlimited and All Powerful ! 

So , go ahead and Create ! 
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LETTING GO OF PAIN !






LETTING GO OF ANGER AND PAIN ! 

 The simple process with LOA is that you decide what you want , then you "feel" like you already posses what you want , the universe , then picks up on your 'feelings' and delivers to you whit precision what you want.

 But what if you cant feel it ? What if you cant feel anything? Or when it comes to having the feeling of having it the evidence from the past , stands up and stares at you right in the face ? 

 Sometimes , you go in for a quantum leap , you don't release the past ,and focus on your desire so hard , that the universe delivers to you your desire , but because you haven't let go of the anger and the pain , you see your desire turn rotten in front of you. 

 You manifest things but you have difficulty holding on to it...

 You loose the money you manifested , your Soul-mate now seems like the devil , the dream job you manifested , is starting to feel like your last few jobs , which you hated. 

 All this happens , when we , just jump into the visualizing , day dreaming Manifesting mode , without facing our demons. 

 So...is your dream relationship turning rotten for no real reason ? , the person you were supposed to feel love for now you seem to hate ? It might be that you are still holding on to the pain or suffering caused by this person or from the previous failed relationships . You know that its all now ancient history , and this pain seems illogical . But , nonetheless , it all too real and you are Angry inside , but you know that anger is a negative feeling , so you try your best to suppress it , distract yourself.. and forget about it... and slowly you feel a state where you cant feel anything at all.

 That was one example ... want More ? 

 So why is it , that the people who shoot up to fame and fortune fast , or win the jackpot and rake in a lot of money fast , cant seem to hold on to it. (There is a scientific research analyzing this phenomenon) . The faster the fame and money comes the faster they crash and burn. 

 Its all happens because we have learned to practice the Law of attraction , but we are still holding on to the Limiting beliefs , the anger , the pain and we haven't fully grasped the concept of letting go. 

 SO WHAT DO I DO ?

 You work through the anger , the pain and suffering . After learning so much about LOA , you do realize that you are the one who attracted all that suffering pain and bad experiences to yourself . But like any normal human being you find it easier to point out to an recipient external to you , who you can hold responsible for you pain , who you can be angry with , who you can accuse for all that is wrong in your life. 

 I suggest you do that ! Off-course not to that persons face. But you can always vent out at them in your thoughts ... here is what you do.

 Take out sometime and find a quite place where you can be alone , now pick up a person or a situation or god (if you are angry with god ) , you hold responsible for you misery ... now they are there to listen to you , and you are there to vent out you ... can scream at them , shout at them , call them names , reason with them , you can take a pillow , imagine its them ,and Go all Lucha libre on it for all i care . the goal here is to get angry . And vent out , dont leave anything , you can beat that pillow to an inch of its life , but instead of suppressing your anger for all this time ... try to take it all out. 

 Some people think being angry is a bad emotion , it is ,,, but it is better than self hate , and depression and frustration. When you get angry , you are actually in a higher vibration. 

 After you are done , you will feel lighter , And you will be able to breathe more better. repeat this exercise 3 times max (for one recipient) . 

 With your anger out of the way , you can now look at the universe rationally , if its a relationship you want healed , then you have to admit to yourself that , you just yelled and beat the shit out of the other person , so now the score is settled , you have a clean slate , and so does they . and they will behave exactly as you ask the universe for them to behave with you. 

 If its money you want to hold on to , then you have to acknowledge the fact that the universe is capable of providing you with unlimited financial abundance ,and you are doing well where you are and you will always do well financially .

 So if you can just work through you pain , you will finally find the peace you are looking for , all the uncertainty will dissolve and you will be a powerful creator. 

 So go .. try it ...

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