Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts
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Sunday, 1 March 2015

DOING THE IMPOSSIBLE !!!

The Impossible tasks ! 


 What is Impossible? , You can tell me that the meaning lies in the word itself, some of the more positive people tell me that it is just a way to say, I AM POSSIBLE. I don’t really understand what that means…I mean yes I exist, ergo I am not just a possibility, but I am a truth, which you and everyone else on this planet will have to live with hopefully for the next 40 more years.

 But then what is Impossible, and by extension, what is an impossible task? A impossible situation. I ll go ahead and explore what it means for an average person. It’s a place of No hope, or to put it in a more “non-depressing” way, it’s a task you have no idea how to accomplish, and even if you have an idea on how to do it, you are right now not in a state to implement that idea. To put it more simply, you don’t know how to get ‘there’ from ‘here’. You don’t know the path, or the path you know, you are in no position to walk on right now.
I ll take 2 examples, of impossible tasks, see if any one of it is applicable to you. 

 1. Buying a House.

 2. Getting back an Ex/Making a crush fall for you/ changing someone’s attitude. 
So you want to buy a house. So your mind says, its fairly simply, Make the money and then 
buy the house. Then you ask your mind, how do I make so much money. And the answer is usually, ‘Someday’. Till then I think you should rent. 

 When it comes to changing someone’s mind about you, your mind is like, ‘lets keep trying’ , maybe we can wear them down by our nagging or persistence. And when the other person goes and blocks your number and phone, your mind is like “we tried our best, maybe it was not worth it, just sit and mope, complain occasionally, ‘Someday’ it will all change, wait till then, at least they will call you brave to put up with all this.”

 So what happened in both the cases? In both cases your mind didn’t know how to get ‘there’, it tried all that it could, and when it didn’t work, your mind declared that there is no other way, and to conserve energy it made this problem a problem for your ‘future self’.

 So then are we doomed to not buy that house, when we need it, or not be in a relationship of our choice. Not have the love and appreciation that we deserve?
No, we are forgetting something very important. Focus, and Desire. We usually don’t pay attention to the ‘thinking’ part, when all our problems lie in this physical world.

 What if I tell you today, that the world doesn’t work the way you come to believe. We live in a world where we expect results to every action. And so happiness and relief is a ‘result’ for us, Result of an action that you take in the physical reality. How many times you would have caught yourself saying. 

 “if only I could have that one thing, I would be that happiest person on the planet.”
This approach, this perspective about life leads us to the whole concept of Impossible.
Happiness and Bliss and relief are not ‘Results’, these are ‘Actions’ and such strong actions that they can actually open up, and show you a way towards an impossible situation.

 The human brain is a stupid thing, it always assumes that it knows all there is to know about a situation, and so when find yourself in a place where you have to make a decision, your brain just assumes that it knows all possible ways, and that there is no other
way. But you and i both know from experience that, if we cant see a way, that doesn't mean that it doesn't exists.

 So even if you don’t know the 'how' of having that new house right now, don’t worry, don’t even put off your dream, because the ‘way’ in which you can have that house, that relationship, that dream come true, Right now,Exists ! You just don’t see it yet, and to see it, to see this path, this new way, light up in front of you, you have to just move a little towards your impossible goal, and how do you do that? You focus on having it right now, and you feel how it would feel to be in that perfect world where you have what you want. You discuss why you want it? How is it going to make you feel, you get excited about it. That is how you move towards it. And the best part, you don’t even have to do it all day. Writing or visualizing about your perfect resolution, 5 minutes every day before bed, and then not worrying about it all day is all it takes for you to see the new path light in front of you.
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LETTING GO OF FEAR !



Fear 
Why do we Fear Stuff? Why do we fear stuff that is not even there? And why do we Fear stuff by assuming that there is something to fear?

 We fear stuff because we think that the ‘Stuff” is uncertain, and by extension ‘out of our control’, and by fearing it and mentally preparing ourselves for it beforehand, we think that we are trying to control that ‘out of our control stuff’.

But what are we doing really? We are creating that uncertain stuff by fearing it. When you fear something your mind focuses on that something, and by law, what you focus on expands. Now many of you would have taken up a razor to your wrist, just after reading this, coz this, to many of you would mean that you would be going on about in circles for the foreseeable future. 

You fear , you create , you fear, you create. The cycle goes on… 

Put the razor Down! your life is awesome! You can be happy! Just read on.

So, why has fearing stuff become a habit? Or why does it seem like the default setting. Because with fear is associated the ‘pain’ of getting ‘Hurt’, either ‘Physical’ or ‘emotional’ hurt. 

And as long as you are not a Sado-masochist, you don’t really enjoy pain, and so you fear everything that is there to give you pain, physical or emotional. 

But, then why does anything bad exist? Why is there a hell to your heaven, and devil to your god, loneliness to your perfect relationship, poverty to your prosperity? Let’s call these extreme negatives, and the reason that they exist is so that we can fully appreciate the extreme positives. 

You can’t experience great love without having your heart broken a few times, you cant appreciate your prosperity and reach your full potential, unless you know the pain of poverty and failure. You cannot fully appreciate the existence of good if you haven’t seen the bad. 

And that is the true purpose of all that is bad. To make you appreciate the good. 

That’s the message! “Appreciate the good, Focus on it, Feel it, day in day out, and only good will be created for you” 

Now with that being said, you will ask me, how do we stay away from the bad then? It seems to come by in large doses, and usually follow something good, making it worst?

Well , you know how the universal “law of attraction” states, whatever you focus on Grows, so is the growth of good and bad in your life is regulated. 

Look back, see all the bad that has happened, A break up, a loss of job, personal loss, just look at it and look at the your emotions preceding that event, and then apply the ‘What I focus on expands’ rule to this. And tell me you weren’t anticipating the bad thing. 

But I was anticipating, because I wanted to prevent it. You say. I have had bad experiences in the past, Men are pigs, Women are Vampires, and money is hard to come by, I know a friend of a friend of a friend of a friend who went through this. And yet with all this knowledge you landed yourself in that bad situation? You didn’t prevent anything. All you did was focus on a bad thing for so long that you invited it to your own life. 

Don’t you see what you did here? You just created the ‘very thing’ by focusing on ‘not creating it’, There is no such thing as a ‘I don’t want it’ with the universe. Its all focus. And when you think that you are focused on preventing something from happening, you are actually just creating the very thing for yourself. 

Bad things exist because we acknowledge their existence by focusing on ‘not wanting them’. 

So what is the moral of this story right here? You create the good, and you create the bad. And so it’s all under your control, and if it is all under your control, then you choose to not create a bad thing for yourself, by holding in your head its exact opposite, the good thing. 

You don’t want to be alone anymore? Focus on being loved; appreciate whatever love that you are receiving right now. Realize what matters. It’s your happiness that is the most important thing in the world, and focus on whatever that makes you truly happy, that is what your life is all about. 

“But I have to know about all that is evil, so I can guard myself against it.” 

No! the best way to guard yourself is to ‘not’ let it into your conciseness. You think that you are guarding yourself against a break up, guarding yourself from getting hurt, or failure or harm, but getting hurt and failure and suffering is what you are really creating. 

When all that is evil in the world in under your control. When you can at any point choose to invite or not invite or throw out the bad things, by simply changing your focus. Then why are you still fearful about ‘stuff’ jumping out, creeping in, unexpectedly into your life? Congratulations, you have just eliminated Fear. 

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Thursday, 4 September 2014

INTRODUCTION TO LAW OF ATTRACTION



Law Of Attraction 101 !!

The Law of Attraction is usually described as a "universal law" (like gravity is also a universal law) that delivers into your life whatever you focus on the most. A negative focus will attract mostly negative experiences, while a positive focus will attract mostly positive experiences.

Sounds simple enough, right? Think positive, get positive. Think negative, get negative. But there’s a little more to it than that.

Current knowledge about the Law of Attraction reveals a clear connection between our thoughts, emotions, beliefs, expectations, and the world around us.

Basically, here’s how it works:

Thoughts + Emotions + Beliefs + Expectations = Reality
Let’s break down each of these components to better understand how they work together.

Thoughts

Your thoughts provide the general structure for your reality. You perceive your surroundings and gear your emotions according to your thoughts. When you think positively, you usually “feel” positively.

In other words, positive thoughts make you feel good, and negative thoughts make you feel bad.

One common misconception is that your thoughts create your reality. Your thoughts actually don’t create anything by themselves.

Can you imagine if you “created” everything you thought about? Your nightmares would all come true, as well as every fear and worry you’ve ever had! No thank you!

In actuality, your thoughts need to be infused with emotion in order to be formed in physical reality.

Emotions
Your emotions could accurately be described as the "fuel" that gives life to your thoughts. When you hold a specific thought or idea in your mind and generate strong emotions for or about it – you bring it into your life!

Emotions are the driving force behind your ability to create your reality.

If you take nothing else away from reading this page, the MOST important thing I want you to understand is the absolute raw power that your emotions hold!

This is why negative thoughts can be so destructive. When you focus on negative things and emit negative emotions about them – you attract them! Likewise, when you think positive thoughts and emit positive emotions about them – you attract them!

Beliefs and Expectations

Your beliefs and expectations act as gatekeepers for your reality. No matter how hard you try to think and feel positively, a limiting belief or negative expectation has the power to BLOCK what you’re trying to attract. It doesn’t matter how many affirmations you recite, or how strongly you visualize yourself having something you want – if you hold limiting beliefs about it, your subconscious mind will NOT allow you to have it! You either don’t believe it’s possible or don’t believe you deserve it, so it will not be possible for you.

YOU CREATE YOUR EXPERIENCE !


HOW ARE YOU FEELING ??

YOUR DAY TO DAY EXPERIENCE IS JUST A PHYSICAL MANIFESTATION OF WHAT"S GOING ON IN YOUR MIND ! 

It cant get simpler than this !! If you can just acknowledge this one simple Fact , then you can change your whole perspective of life and the living of life . 

Bad Days , can be transformed to good days in just a few moments , and Problems could be resolved in Moments . The universe always works instantly , the moment you set an intention ,its manifestation start's . The universe starts shaping your circumstances accordingly so that your intention can be met.
So Right now in this moment ...

What is your intention ? How are you feeling ?

Are you creating something wonderful ? (and creating something Amazing)
Or 
Are you stressing over something negative ? (and complicating the situation even more )

Are you appreciating yourself ? (And getting younger and happier and healthier by the moment)
Or 
Are you Holding on to some limiting belief about yourself ? ( And Gaining weight , loosing hair , loosing money and love and respect )

So , What is going on in your mind today ? 

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YOU HAVE THE POWER !!!



YOU HAVE THE POWER ! 

 This is the first time in the history of Man kind that we are openly talking about the Power of the Universe , rather than fearing it or worshiping it , we are actively developing our skills to efficiently communicate with it .

 Through our imagination , thoughts , emotions and by the power of our 'Will' we are now able to shape and reshape and eventually perfect our own experience in this life. 

 'Nothing is impossible' and 'Nothing is out of reach' No matter who you are and no matter Where you are or how hopeless things seem for you... Just know this , it will get better ! and even better , you have the power and the talent and the capability to make it better ! You don't have to wait , you don't have to suffer anymore . The unlimited and Awesome power of the universe is at your disposal , and when you learn to use this resource , You become Unlimited and All Powerful ! 

So , go ahead and Create ! 
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LETTING GO OF PAIN !






LETTING GO OF ANGER AND PAIN ! 

 The simple process with LOA is that you decide what you want , then you "feel" like you already posses what you want , the universe , then picks up on your 'feelings' and delivers to you whit precision what you want.

 But what if you cant feel it ? What if you cant feel anything? Or when it comes to having the feeling of having it the evidence from the past , stands up and stares at you right in the face ? 

 Sometimes , you go in for a quantum leap , you don't release the past ,and focus on your desire so hard , that the universe delivers to you your desire , but because you haven't let go of the anger and the pain , you see your desire turn rotten in front of you. 

 You manifest things but you have difficulty holding on to it...

 You loose the money you manifested , your Soul-mate now seems like the devil , the dream job you manifested , is starting to feel like your last few jobs , which you hated. 

 All this happens , when we , just jump into the visualizing , day dreaming Manifesting mode , without facing our demons. 

 So...is your dream relationship turning rotten for no real reason ? , the person you were supposed to feel love for now you seem to hate ? It might be that you are still holding on to the pain or suffering caused by this person or from the previous failed relationships . You know that its all now ancient history , and this pain seems illogical . But , nonetheless , it all too real and you are Angry inside , but you know that anger is a negative feeling , so you try your best to suppress it , distract yourself.. and forget about it... and slowly you feel a state where you cant feel anything at all.

 That was one example ... want More ? 

 So why is it , that the people who shoot up to fame and fortune fast , or win the jackpot and rake in a lot of money fast , cant seem to hold on to it. (There is a scientific research analyzing this phenomenon) . The faster the fame and money comes the faster they crash and burn. 

 Its all happens because we have learned to practice the Law of attraction , but we are still holding on to the Limiting beliefs , the anger , the pain and we haven't fully grasped the concept of letting go. 

 SO WHAT DO I DO ?

 You work through the anger , the pain and suffering . After learning so much about LOA , you do realize that you are the one who attracted all that suffering pain and bad experiences to yourself . But like any normal human being you find it easier to point out to an recipient external to you , who you can hold responsible for you pain , who you can be angry with , who you can accuse for all that is wrong in your life. 

 I suggest you do that ! Off-course not to that persons face. But you can always vent out at them in your thoughts ... here is what you do.

 Take out sometime and find a quite place where you can be alone , now pick up a person or a situation or god (if you are angry with god ) , you hold responsible for you misery ... now they are there to listen to you , and you are there to vent out you ... can scream at them , shout at them , call them names , reason with them , you can take a pillow , imagine its them ,and Go all Lucha libre on it for all i care . the goal here is to get angry . And vent out , dont leave anything , you can beat that pillow to an inch of its life , but instead of suppressing your anger for all this time ... try to take it all out. 

 Some people think being angry is a bad emotion , it is ,,, but it is better than self hate , and depression and frustration. When you get angry , you are actually in a higher vibration. 

 After you are done , you will feel lighter , And you will be able to breathe more better. repeat this exercise 3 times max (for one recipient) . 

 With your anger out of the way , you can now look at the universe rationally , if its a relationship you want healed , then you have to admit to yourself that , you just yelled and beat the shit out of the other person , so now the score is settled , you have a clean slate , and so does they . and they will behave exactly as you ask the universe for them to behave with you. 

 If its money you want to hold on to , then you have to acknowledge the fact that the universe is capable of providing you with unlimited financial abundance ,and you are doing well where you are and you will always do well financially .

 So if you can just work through you pain , you will finally find the peace you are looking for , all the uncertainty will dissolve and you will be a powerful creator. 

 So go .. try it ...

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Monday, 5 May 2014

DEBT AND LAW OF ATTRACTION !

First off all , lets not argue about "but from where the money will come ?" , its none of your business ! , its the universes business , so you just sit pretty while the universe finds a way to come up with the Money .For my more skeptical friends , Please relax and let the universe show you , "How the money is going to come. "

 Now that being said , we can move on to the topic at hand , that is DEBT ! 






Being is Debt is bad , being constantly chased by creditors is annoying and at the same time takes toll over our self esteem and image.  
Many of us have at some point in our life have found ourselves in debt , we owe money , and we don't have enough to pay back . And believe me , i know , this feeling sucks , especially if you are not an habitual defaulter.

Many people ask me about law of attraction and Money , can LOA be used to manifest money , can it help them to clear off their debts ?
The Answer is Yes ! it can ! But , like any application of LOA , it can be really easy or really difficult to implement , depends on your current mindset. 
Now look at "Settlement of Debt" as a need , so when applying LOA on this matter , we calculate the amount of money we need to settle the debt and ask the universe to deliver through visualization , imagination , listing out things to be thankful for and stuff , if these work for you , then just close this page , because you are An LOA Master and you don't need to be here , go enjoy your money , but if these don't work , read on.


The universe manifests the essence of your desires by picking up on your emotions and feelings. So sometimes concentrating on an "BIG' Amount of money to pay off your debt , when there is no obvious source of income in sight , can be a little difficult , it can also , evoke Negative emotions of doubt and uncertainty. 

SO whats the alternative ?

Its. simple , we take the money factor out of the manifestation. Just listen to me for a second ,before lighting the torches and picking up your pitchforks .  Its simple , 

"The manifestation we are aiming for is 'Debt settlement' not 'manifesting Money' ! "


Let me explain with an example ....
Meet Steve , Steve has lost his job due to something inevitable. And now with no monthly income to support him , Steve is facing a Huge Credit card Outstanding , lets say USD 30000 ! Maybe he bought a 'Train' for all i care , but the truth is he is in debt , and he has no way of paying it off in the future . Now he can declare bankruptcy and get the credit card people off his back , but lets be honest , declaring Bankruptcy isn't cheap . that will be the last nail in the coffin. 

What Steve needs to do is to address the elephant in the room , or better , imagine the room without the elephant ! 
The need here is to settle the debt , and the only logical solution Steve's brain is giving him is "Get some Money" But with the bad market and all (again a belief of Steve's Brain) it seems impossible at the moment. So what does he do ? He leaves it to the universe. 

What Steve's Brain doesn't understand is that the 'HOW' of this manifestation will be taken care off by the universe , who has access to all the 3600 Thousand Trillion Dollars on the earth , And Steve's Debt is a measly 0.0000000000000001 % of that wealth. So all Steve has to do now is concentrate on the 'feeling' he is going to feel while he is repaying the Debt. 

So, Steve sits Down , and He relaxes , He Takes deep breaths and he remembers the fact that he is the creator of his own experience in this reality  . And he Asks himself ....

              "How will i feel , when this debt is paid ? " 

What does this debt settlement stand for , the answer is simple , RELAXATION  ! Steve will be able to finally relax once the debt is paid . and through that Relaxation will come Happiness. 
Knowing this Steve now , imagines that he is paying his debt off, he is writing a cheque , and he is handing it over to the people he owes money , or he is Transferring funds from his account and paying off all his debt , and while doing so , a feeling of relaxation is sweeping over him. Now he is no longer under debt , and great burden is off his shoulders and he is feeling free and light and  mildly elated. He keeps feeling these feelings , looses track of time , drifts off to sleep.
 

Next Morning he wakes up , freshens up , sits down with a pen and paper , Writes down ....

"Thank you universe for such an amazing resolution , i feel so free and light , now that i have cleared off all my debts . And the best part , there is money left with me after , to help me start over again. Thank you universe for taking care of me ! " 

He spends the day without a care in the world and in the evening , receives a text that his account has been debited with 60000 USD . 

So folks what did we learn ?

1. Its the feeling's that matter. SO find a way to feel "That way". 
2. You manifestation ain't in the future , its now , when asking for a desire , act as if you have it "NOW"
3. The universe is Generous , it will give you more than you could have ever imagined or expected. 
4. Its possible for you to feel "That way" without an actual manifestation. 
5. Goal setting is good , but Dont be stuck on a date , Maybe the universe wants to deliver it ahead of time. 
6. When ever you are imagining or visualizing , Do it in the Present tense , do it as if you have everything now. Your imagination is your happy place , you are not bound by physical limitations , so go Nuts ! 






 
pS. This Example was based of a real experience of one of the readers. :)




Friday, 7 March 2014

WHY DOES GOD ALLOW SO MUCH SUFFERING ?




AWESOME QUESTION ASKED RECENTLY :

Question : I was intrigued by a post u pinned which said : Life is fucking easy. How would you explain this just out of interest to the person with chronic ailments; with those that struggle to put food on the table every day and keep a roof over their family's head; when unemployment is just around the corner, or worse those that live permanently in refugee camps that are in hot fly-blown places like Ethiopia with no chance of ever escaping them. Upon arrival there the mother has a very sick baby suckling on her breasts that don't produce milk because she her is severely undernourished to how can you then say life is fucking easy? I 'm just curious to know?



The Yellow Doorway 's Answer : 
 
Here is how the universe works , everyone on this planet is the creator of their own experience . If you have a brief idea of Law of attraction , then you would know that , whatever we feel ,the universe multiplies . So good feelings bring more good feelings thoughts and things , and bad feelings attract more bad feeling thoughts and circumstances . Now lets first talk about disease , or chronic ailments . Disease or any ailments of the mind or body , are attracted by a person themselves , you grow a cancer , its your screwed up vibration , whatever is happening to the body is just a physical manifestation of whats going on in the mind , so if the mind is sick with stress and tension , and negativity , the person will fall sick , and in cases where a person holds on to this chronic negativity for a long time , he or she develops a chronic illness . The universe doesn't care about right or wrong or good or bad , it just listens to your feelings and emotions and gives you more of that , so if a person is consumed and obsessed with stress or worry or tension , and feels like that his whole life is being consumed by the circumstances , he will attract a chronic illness like cancer or AIDS .

Now lets talk about people in Misery , the malnourished , and war affected people , who start their life in misery and end their life in misery . When a child is born , he doesn't know that whats going on around him , he doesn't care if his parents don't have money to buy milk to feed him , all he knows is that he wants milk and so he / she cries . Now lets apply the LOA here , people in such adverse conditions are mostly stuck in such adverse conditions , because they don't know otherwise , all their life all they have seen is misery and death and poverty , and so , the primitive lizard brain kicks in for survival , and their life starts and ends for just survival . People in such places , in fact all over the world are just reacting to their external circumstances, so the universe is giving them more of those circumstances , its a vicious circle . And all they have to do to get out, is to not acknowledge what all is wrong and just Dream . Now you will point out that how can a person in hellish conditions dream ? , Yes they can ! , Dreaming about a better life doesn't cost a thing , and if there is a slim chance that by just vibrating / feeling the right feelings can get a person out of the hell he is in , then why not take it.

All these people , the ones ones with their ailments and the ones in hellish conditions. all of them are responsible for their own experience in their life , The universe is at everyone's disposal . All they have to do is ask for the things they want, rather than beat the drum of all they dont want ! And so , i state again , LIFE is F%$KING easy !!!

Yes there will be Misery , there will be things that will bother you , but it is you who has to make the choice of whether to be bothered by them or not , The Pain is real , but the suffering is optional , and it always , eases up things to know that the universe is on your side , no matter who you are no matter where you are.  The pain wont last long once you stop the suffering . It will fade away and the things that will make you happy will come to your experience , if its food then it will be food , if its good health then great cure for your ailment.



The moment you Stop being bothered by all that is wrong with your life , the moment you stop paying attention to all the misery , the moment you stop counting the things that are out of place , Your Vibration will start rising up. At first you will 'feel Nothing' , A Void , which is better than feeling 'bad' , Then as your Vibration rises up , you will start to feel  more Happy and at Ease. And then , before you know it , Doors will start opening up where there were only walls . And you will see a solution to your situation.

Tuesday, 4 March 2014

REVIVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH LAW OF ATTRACTION !

                                       





One of the most common questions that  I encounter is, "Can I use law of attraction to bring back an Ex?" 



And the Answer to this is Yes! You can! And it’s Easy and difficult at the same time. But in the end it will depend on you. It doesn't matter if the relationship ended yesterday or last month or last year , it doesn't matter if you are here and they are a 1000 miles away . None of it matters, all that matters is, if you still love them?



Most of you will say, "Yes we do!" That's why we are here, reading your blog! We have tried for so long now, We have tried every move in the proverbial Book ! And now we are frustrated, and we have turned to the universe for help. Well, you have come to the right place, but before we start, I want to just make sure that you are pursuing whoever it is you are pursuing because of love, and not to prove a point, not because you think that you can’t get anyone else , not out of fear, not to feed your ego ,but because you are in love . 



Now how will you know if you are still in love, there are a million ways to know, but asking yourself and talking to yourself works best. 






PROCESS TO DETERMINE IF YOU STILL LOVE THEM ! 




1. Find a quiet place where no one can disturb you for at least 15 minutes .



2. Now sit down in a comfortable position, and close your eyes.



3. Take a few deep breaths.



4. Now just for a moment, concentrate on yourself, be entirely present in the moment, pay attention to your body, how it feels, just pull out all your awareness from the past, future, and be there in your body, be with yourself .



5. Know this that in this moment, sitting right here right now, you are free from everything. There is nothing that you need to do, there is nowhere that you need to be and there is nothing that can hurt you. For this 15 minutes you are here and you are free from all the worldly affairs of your life.  These 15 minutes are yours to relax! So Relax! 



6. Now when you feel like, search your awareness and find the most amazing person aside from your Ex that you know. This person can be anyone; someone you once had a crush on, someone who is way better than your Ex in looks, and nature and all other aspects. 



7. Once you have zeroed in on that better person, Ponder on this question.

       "Would i still want my Ex if this amazing person walked up to me and proposed me? " 



8. For a Moment consider this ,believe it is true, if this amazing person that you know of , or someone like that comes up to you tomorrow and proposes you, would you go for them or would you still want to patch things with your ex. 



Take a moment to process this thought in detail. 



If you happily  accepted this new and amazing person, then I must tell you that,  you are not in love with your Ex . What you are actually looking for is a happy and loving relationship , and that can come from anyone , it doesn't have to be your Ex. 



Now if the thought of accepting this new and improved person gave you mixed feelings, like cheating on your Ex, even though you are not in a relationship as of now, or if the thought of losing your Ex (despite all the kinks) popped up , and it didn't feel good. Then yes, you are still in love with your Ex , and you should read on .




Moving On..





Now First thing to know is that it is possible! And it is easy! It is already done! All you have to do is Relax and let the manifestation in. 



But relaxing ain't that easy in these situations, there is so much pain and hurt feeling and memories, that you are  in a constant battle with yourself. So first we have to take care of these feelings. You must know that these feelings of fear, and insecurity are the ones that landed you here in this situation in the first place. 



The Universe always monitors how you feel and then tries to  mould your experience accordingly so that you can have more of those feelings. 



YOUR FEELING IS THE ONLY THING THAT MATTERS. 



There are certain things that generally cause relationships to go bad. I’ll try to list all of them , and discuss how to tackle them.



FEELINGS OF UNWORTHINESS :



So you met the guy/ Girl of your dreams, someone who you would have never thought you can get in your wildest dreams. You got lucky. You put them on a pedestal, all of creation and god's creatures including you come in a second place to your Guy/ Girl. You are willing to change for them. You are so much in love that you get the stars and the moon for them, and you are perfectly happy with the 50 cent card they bought for you on your special day. You eat what they eat, you go where they go.



This is where things go bad. Sometimes while doing these things you start to lose yourself, When you think that your lover is out of your league, or superior to you, it gives out a signal of unworthiness to the universe. And the universe responds to it, by increasing your lover’s value in your eyes, and decreasing your own value in your eyes. So when a problem arises, even a small one you give up rationality and start looking  for what 'you' did wrong. With time the universe gives you more and more circumstances that make you feel more and more worthless. 





  "So what can i do about it ?"



Love yourself, Value yourself.  You should know That we live in a vibrational universe and in the eyes of the universe everyone is equal, everyone is beautiful and everyone is capable of greatness. When you first met the love of your life, it was you and your vibration that attracted them. The Universe doesn't decide your worth. You DO!  It is your belief that drives the universe to bring things into your experience. If you believe you are worthy, then you are worthy.  There is nothing wrong with you. You deserve to be put on a pedestal, you deserve to be loved and valued the same way you love and value your lover. And they will be happy to move the heavens and earth for you because they love you. When you truly believe this, the universe will start to change your experience. 





FEAR / INSECURITY :



Fear is generally based on past bad experiences. A woman who had been cheated on in a previous relationship will always be in fear of being cheated on in the current one as well. It gives birth to insecurity, and once you are consumed by it, the universe gets the signal, and BAM ! You experience a situation where you get to live your fear! 


"So what can i do about it  ?"



Know that you are the sole creator of your experience on this planet. Know this that at the core every human being on this planet is looking for happiness, we are all the same. Know this that you and your lover came together, because the universe found you guys to be the perfect match and both of you fulfilled each others’ requirements to be happy. Know this that it is you who can invite in bad experiences by thinking and holding on to fear and insecurity. Know this that the past or whatever happened in the past has no power over you, whatever happened then, you invited it in, and now if you let go of that bad experience it will also  leave you forever. Know this that you have manifested a loving partner who values you respects you and loves you as much as you love them, and they would never do anything to hurt you or betray you. So take a breather and let the feelings of fear and insecurity go.



EXTERNAL FACTORS !  





You want it, but they don’t, for some reason that seems absurd when you think about it, but that's the way it is. The parents are not agreeing, your lover isn't looking to settle down yet, you are in a long distance relationship, they found someone better, different religion , different skin color , different caste , need I go on ? 


"So what can i do about this ?"  




 Well it works like this, The universe will give you whatever you want, whatever you place your focus on. All the other people in your experience are there to fulfill their roles that you have assigned to them. Their thoughts and wishes  don't have any effect on your experience, so if you think you are not in control of the situation, think again! The problem that arose, is just an external manifestation of a limitation that you have sub consciously imposed on yourself. And as soon as you find and let go of that limitation, things will start to get better. Just focus on what you want and don’t listen to the noise around you and you’ll be fine.


Now that we have addressed the limitations, we can move onto the part on how to revive the relationship.

So, I can go on and describe some visualizing exercises where you can imagine yourself and them dancing around a tree to a bollywood song with backup dancers and everything or I can keep it simple. 

Ok I will keep it simple.

The most 'Important' and the most 'overlooked' truth when practicing the law of attraction is, 

"When it comes to effecting change (big or little, but especially Big ) be it manifesting the life of your dreams or reviving a relationship or getting that perfect parking space , 'thinking' is immeasurably more valuable when used to imagining what you want - the end result- than to figure out how you are going to get it. " 

All you have to do is to be at a feeling place of where you want to be, and the universe will do its part and get you there .The best way to do so is , think about what you want. 

So what do you want?

"I want to be in a loving relationship with {enter name}!"

And how is that going to make you feel? 

"Happy , relaxed , secure , excited , in love ,  [enter more feelings here]"

So if you can feel all those feelings right now the universe will bring you more of those feelings and more and more, and before you know it your lover will be standing on that door, asking you to take them back. 
 



All you have to do is "Trust the universe", and from that place of trust and calmness you have to anticipate the arrival of your lover back into your life. Its like, you know they are coming to you and you are excited about it. And how do you know that its working???



Well you feel good!!! If right now you feel the love and you feel good and relaxed and calm, then you are on the right path, then you are doing your part and vibrating in the right place, and now you trust the universe to do its part and deliver to you your, manifestation. 

Think of the universe as your competent secretary, one who never fails you and delivers whatever you ask for. So just tell it what you want and relax. 

So that's  the gist of it all. if you have any questions , contact me on the facebook page or leave a comment here.

Here are a few exercises that would help you let go of limitations and help you get in the feeling mode . Do them daily !







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